Are you lonely?

Open your eyes and look around, how many people do you see? If your answer is no one, and your answer excudes your family, and it bothers you, I would like to ask you why? 

Considering the fact we are humans, yes.. we feel the need to socialize, but is it really a need? Or just something we want, because we are used to living with people around… The question is why we are so dependent on others, for everything we need? and everything we want? 

We forget the fact, that we were all alone when we were born, and we still made it into the world… If we could do that all alone, why do we need people for everything else.. We could definately handle everything on our own… The absence of no one in our life other than your family should really matter to you… 

People think they are alone even when they have their family with them.. Guess what the problem actually is? The problem is that we try to find people other than our family to surround us, to accompany us, to give us support.. My question is why? Do you really think those people matter? Do you really think they care as much as your family does? 

The answer is no… 

This is something my profession made me realise.. As a physical therapist the only people i saw around my patients, were their family members.. You no why? Cause no one else really cared, as much as the family did, very few people remain by your side in turns of hardship, 90% of the times its only your family.. It takes alot of courage to give up your daily job and spend your time, taking care of someone who really matters to you.. And trust me no one other than your family posseses this courage.. I have seen patients, who said people left them because of their physical conditions, this is when they realised who really cared..

People who care, would always be by your side and they are whom, whose presence or absence should really matter…

So the question is, Now do you really               think, you’re alone?

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The Introvert Being

How is it to be an introvert

       Ever since my childhood, I was always pointed out for my introvert being. 

       

      I never realised why was it even considered to be a crime. I always had people tell me how not be an introvert. 
                  I mean,  really ?? 

       Me being an introvert, was me being myself, and now I had people tell me how not to be myself 

       This honestly took away my happiness at times,  as a child. I never new what to do about it.. Nevertheless I continued to be who I was as that’s the way I loved it to be.. 

     Being shy, doesn’t really mean you are less opinionated, it just means you don’t feel it necessary to put forth your opinions infront of others all the time … And this is all that makes that introvert being a different one

       As I grew up into being a woman of around  21, i realized its important on my part to make people realize how good and comfortable I felt as an introvert being, and that I do not wish to change myself forever..  People continued to poke their nose’s,  telling me all that I never wanted to hear, until one day…….. 

               THAT day she stood infront of all, and said all that had been piling up since she was a child… 

She said, 

                 I am an introvert being, I am so since my childhood and I have no plans whatsoever to change  what I have been, or what i intend to be.. I am the one responsible for myself and I will decide how I want it to be.. 

               From that day on,  she lived her life of her own, for the very first time being proud of her introvert being.. 

   Being an introvert, is my POWER

             DO NOT be mistaken, 

       to consider it, my weakness.. 

              I AM WHO I AM, 

                        AND 


             WHO I INTEND TO BE..