Learn about karma..

I don’t know how but I came across this wonderful lady called BK Shivani and let me tell you I feel so lucky to have found her channel on YouTube.. Her videos have changed my thinking about life to an extent that I feel so positive right now that I feel like sharing this positivity with all my readers.. 💖

I would be sharing the link to one of her videos please use captions if you need to but do not ignore these videos.. It will change everything negative emotion that we contain in ourselves.. There are so many videos of hers and I am honestly going through them all.. And I would ask you to do the same… Please please watch these videos.. I’m sure it’s going to help you..

The world can change if follow these rules in our life and change our thinking the way she explains..

If you want to change Your Life you need to watch this..

https://youtu.be/D0MJ-E8qCdg

Do share this video with everyone and not just your loved ones, especially your enemies..

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The Doctor didn’t kill you..

So here is something that happened when i was there treating this patient in the ward.

I was standing next to the patient’s bed talking to her and I hear a young woman crying in the ward, in the background. So I turn around, to see a woman cry on a man’s chest who seemed like her father, realizing that a woman infront of them was being resuscitated, who seemed like a mother and a wife to them.

The moment I realised what was happening, I decided to turn around and get back to the conversation that had been left in the midst.. And the moment I did so, the cry in the background all of a sudden spoke a lot more than what words could have, it described the severity of the silence.

Someone was no more..

I take my patients x ray and hold it across the light pretending to read it just to hide those watery eyes, trying to swallow those emotions down the throat, cause shedding tears and expressing human emotions wearing that white coat, wasn’t allowed..

The reason to share this with you all is that I want to convey the fact that inspite of showing as if we don’t care, we really do. We do get affected by what happens because after all we are humans and we have a family too. Its just that after a point some people get immune to those feelings, and some are better in hiding theirs.

So its not our attitude, but the white coat that makes us wear the poker face. And let me tell you, this is the most difficult thing, that we are required to do. As I always say the white coat requires us to hide the human in us.

It’s a pathetic feeling that I get, every time I read the news of a doctor beaten up just because he couldn’t save a human life, but I’ll tell you what we aren’t the ones who decide who lives and who doesn’t. Its God who does.. All I know is that we try our best to use our knowledge that we have acquired over years of study and practice, and it’s quite shameful to realise that its not valued by people.

Doctors are here to help someone live and never to kill. Please respect what they do and believe in them, that they tried their best. And before holding a doctor responsible for a death, take into consideration all that the patient did to value his own life, take into consideration all that a patient did taking his health for granted..

It was never the doctor, it was always the smoke that you let enter your lungs, the alcohol that put inside your stomach by choice, the exercise which you never did, that extra sugar in your cup of tea that you chose to prefer, and not to forget the speed which you increased knowing it could be dangerous, without wearing a helmet.

I hope I made it clear as to who is responsible, for your life and now I feel it isn’t always God but sometimes its you and only you..

Time changes everything..

They say time changes everything.. Yes indeed it does.. It changes Not just the things around you, but sometimes the people around you..

I honestly have lost people who meant the most to me.. And by lost I mean they are physically there but mentally, not there.. Why do i say so..?

This is something I am sure we all face, as time passes by people change, their priorities change, the time they spent with you is replaced by others.. Isn’t it..? But honestly speaking you can never control anyone else’s life.. People change, let them.. I know it hurts, we are humans after all.. But then you know they say.. What goes around comes back.. So your job is to let go people.. Let them loose.. People who really want to stay, will never leave.. And these are the kind of people worth keeping around..

And the ones who don’t will surely come back one day, the only difference being that day you will be the one that won’t care.. You would have moved on.. You know why? Cause time changes everything…

And what goes around comes back..

What have you decided to do with your life?

“All we have to decide, is what to do with the time that is given to us” – Gandalf, LOTR.

I read this quote and it touched my heart and this is why thought of sharing it with all my readers..

It has a deeper meaning to it.. I love such quotes, that get you thinking..

So this quote made me think and check upon myself as to what i am doing right now in my life.. I’ll be honest with you, there is so much I have in my mind going on right now.. I’m just waiting for the right moment to get myself out there..

The question as to what I plan to do and how, is something that I don’t want to answer now, but I have something to tell you apart from this..

The day you are on the right path that is meant for you, that will be the day when every damn thing that happens in your life, will make sense.. If you have ever read my blog’s “about” page, then you might know that I have a vision.. A vision that isn’t for myself and my family but for the world.. I know my dreams are big, but you know they say you need to aim higher.. So here I am doing the same.. Here’s why I am telling you this..

Out of the many things that my patients and my profession has taught me, one was that It made me realise that every single person is here for something.. And its upto you to find your reason.. Reason to be breathing on this earth.. This is what we were born for..

Take a look at all those inspirations of yours, all those people whom you admire did something, no one else did before.. That made others look upto them and not to forget they gave back something to the world.. So ideally we all should be doing something with our lives right? The question is, are we doing so?

Sadly no.. Now the question is why don’t we?

Maybe because no one told us we needed to do something.. This wasn’t surely taught in school..

So now the big question is, if you aren’t doing what you are supposed to be doing, then what are you doing? – a question I would like to ask all my readers..

Let me tell you, Its just ONE life.. A life that is not too big, but big enough to do something that matters.. DON’T LET IT GO IN VAIN.. Make the best out of your life before its too late..

I hope I made you think….

4 Walls of the Hospital have taught me a lot..

You know when you work in a hospital you realise that the world outside is completely different from it..

These four walls of the hospital teach you a lot.. They have shown me every aspect of emotion.. Believe me..

These 4 walls taught me what it is to be happy, seeing your patients walk for the very first time..

These 4 walls taught me what it is to be sad, seeing your patients cope up with complications deteriorating their health..

These 4 walls taught me what it is to be angry, asking God why them.?

These 4 walls taught me what it is to fear, praying to God hoping your patient is still breathing…

These 4 walls taught me what it is to be surprised, seeing the patient whom you didn’t expect to survive to walk back home and the one whom you did, to not..

While I write this, it makes me remember all those times I have been through each of them..

The 4 walls make us feel emotions but sadly, doesn’t let us express them.. As I always say,

The white coat requires us to hide the human in us..

You know why?

Showing your patients that you are happy, might make them feel that your content with their progress.. They might stop trying hard..

Showing them you are sad might get them weak..

Showing them you fear, might make them loose faith in themselves and in God..

Being a woman who tears up on the smallest of things, I can’t even tell you how badly I try control my feelings when I’m hit with people’s stories.. My throat dries up, trying to swallow it all, my eyes trying to hide just cause i can’t express to the one infront..

Its a tough job, but its the one I love..

Is money your most priced possession?

I know sometimes 2 posts a day can be a lot but then I so wanted to share this with all my readers..

A message with a deeper meaning we all need to understand..

An American tourist visited an Indian Yogi. He was astonished to see that the Yogi’s home was a plain, simple room. The only furniture was a mat and an earthen water pot.
The Tourist said “Yogi, with due respect, may I ask: where’s your furniture and other household things?”
Yogi replied asking : “Where is yours?”
Tourist replied : “Mine? But I’m only a visitor here.”
Yogi said : “So am I !!”

Reading this touched me to the core, making me realise that all materialistic things we try to collect on a daily basis will have to be left here when we die.. So what is the point of possessing these things.. If you can’t keep it to yourself?..

Now keeping this in mind think about what we can keep to ourselves? We can keep the love and respect we receive.. So why don’t we focus on collecting them.. Why don’t we do things that would help us gain these things that our supposed to be our priced possessions?

So the moral of the story is.. Do not run behind things that you won’t be able to take with you, instead try to earn things that will remain with you forever.. Do something good, help someone, love someone, care about someone and do things that would help you earn respect in the minds of people..

I hope I made my point clear..

The 5 elements of life had something to teach me..

I want to share something I learnt meeting 5 new people.. These people are the 5 elements of life..

  1. Mrs. Space
  2. Mr. Water
  3. Mrs. Fire
  4. Mr. Earth
  5. Mr. Air

When I met Mrs Space, I realised she had no boundaries set to her dreams.. She dreamt big and believed she could achieve it all.. She was limitless..

Next I met Mr water, and when I saw him lift others I realised there was something like selflessness.. It was the happiness he achieved with the thoughts of buoyancy, by making others rise, helping them out..

Moving forward I met Mrs. Fire, i realised how she lived her life, burning down all the negativity within her.. Some where down the line we all need to incinerate our complexities and live a happy life.. Isn’t it?

Next was Mr. Earth who taught me how we could give birth to something new, something big, the way he himself gives rise to all the flora and fauna.. It made me realise we are here to create.. Aren’t we?

Lastly I met Mr. Air who taught me the most important thing.. He taught me to help others live their lives, the same way as he helps people breathe which is life saving.. He taught me that it was important to save lives and make them worth living..

And guess what, here I am being a physical therapist, making people’s lives worth living, cause “just” surviving is not enough..