Do you miss them?

As humans we get so easily emotionally attached, isn’t it..?

This is the problem.. This emotional attachment becomes the reason for our sorrow.. When people leave us, we feel bad..

But guess what, the truth is that in life there are things over which we do not have control and hence we cannot do anything about them.. So when people leave understand that they had an option to do so.. And they chose to leave.. Its their life isn’t it? Your job is to value yourself to the extent where you chose not to beg someone to stay..

Mark my words,

If people wanted to stay, they would have..

This is one of those most important lessons my life taught me..

I know this is hard to swallow, but it is still food.. Food for thought, I mean..

Give it a thought to whatever I just said.. I Completely agree, that when you are connected to someone you get affected by their choice of leaving you, but if you were important to them, the same way as they are for you, then this would never have happened, isn’t it..?

The moral of the story is, stop thinking about what’s not there in your hands, and most importantly respect your inner self to the extent where you do not care who leaves you.. Because they never valued you.. Stop disrespecting yourself by giving such people the importance they aren’t worthy of..

I hope I made you think…

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Are you lonely?

Open your eyes and look around, how many people do you see? If your answer is no one, and your answer excudes your family, and it bothers you, I would like to ask you why? 

Considering the fact we are humans, yes.. we feel the need to socialize, but is it really a need? Or just something we want, because we are used to living with people around… The question is why we are so dependent on others, for everything we need? and everything we want? 

We forget the fact, that we were all alone when we were born, and we still made it into the world… If we could do that all alone, why do we need people for everything else.. We could definately handle everything on our own… The absence of no one in our life other than your family should really matter to you… 

People think they are alone even when they have their family with them.. Guess what the problem actually is? The problem is that we try to find people other than our family to surround us, to accompany us, to give us support.. My question is why? Do you really think those people matter? Do you really think they care as much as your family does? 

The answer is no… 

This is something my profession made me realise.. As a physical therapist the only people i saw around my patients, were their family members.. You know why? Cause no one else really cared, as much as the family did, very few people remain by your side in turns of hardship, 90% of the times its only your family.. It takes alot of courage to give up your daily job and spend your time, taking care of someone who really matters to you.. And trust me no one other than your family posseses this courage.. I have seen patients, who said people left them because of their physical conditions, this is when they realised who really cared..

People who care, would always be by your side and they are whom, whose presence or absence should really matter…

So the question is, Now do you really               think, you’re alone?