As humans we get so easily emotionally attached, isn’t it..?
This is the problem.. This emotional attachment becomes the reason for our sorrow.. When people leave us, we feel bad..
But guess what, the truth is that in life there are things over which we do not have control and hence we cannot do anything about them.. So when people leave understand that they had an option to do so.. And they chose to leave.. Its their life isn’t it? Your job is to value yourself to the extent where you chose not to beg someone to stay..
Mark my words,
If people wanted to stay, they would have..
This is one of those most important lessons my life taught me..
I know this is hard to swallow, but it is still food.. Food for thought, I mean..
Give it a thought to whatever I just said.. I Completely agree, that when you are connected to someone you get affected by their choice of leaving you, but if you were important to them, the same way as they are for you, then this would never have happened, isn’t it..?
The moral of the story is, stop thinking about what’s not there in your hands, and most importantly respect your inner self to the extent where you do not care who leaves you.. Because they never valued you.. Stop disrespecting yourself by giving such people the importance they aren’t worthy of..
I hope I made you think…